Okay, so a couple weeks ago, my friend showed me some video interviews of Mrs. Shirley Phelps Roper, the daughter of the founding pastor of Westboro Baptist Church. They were... interesting. My friend sent a letter to Mrs. Roper asking a few questions and making some comments on her actions, and he shared his letter with several friends.
A week later, my cousin came to visit for my high school graduation ceremony. He is very interested in God's word, so I decided to show him the video interviews to get his opinion on them. Clearly, he felt the same way I did, to an even greater extreme. When I told him about my friend's letter, he was more than eager to write a letter of his own. I was slowly persuaded to write a letter as well. So rather than send two separate messages to Mrs. Roper, my cousin and I teamed up to write one long letter.
Before I share the message, I would like to briefly explain what the Westboro Baptist Church preaches and why it and its congregation are so interesting. Founded in 1955 by Pastor Fred Phelps, the Westboro Baptist Church preaches that salvation is primarily through works. They travel the world protesting the funerals of American soldiers, claiming that they deserved to die for supporting America. Why would WBC be against America? Because this nation is filled with homosexuals and people who do nothing to oppose homosexuality, according to WBC. (The members of WBC use a different word for "homosexual," but I feel uncomfortable saying it, or even typing it. The word is even used in the URL for their website.) Mrs. Roper and her congregation go out on the streets, preaching that obedience is the only way to salvation and that, otherwise, we are all going to hell. (That is not the true message of the Bible, but I will let my letter do the explaining on that.) To make a long story short, WBC seems to believe that they are the only true Christians, the only ones righteous in the world, and that their mission is to make that known while hardening the hearts of men, blinding their eyes, and deafening their ears so that no others will obtain redemption.
If you would like more information, please feel free to look up Shirley Phelps Roper on YouTube. Her interviews are everywhere.
And now, without further ado, here is the letter that my cousin and I put together for Mrs. Roper.
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Hello, Mrs. Roper.
Our names are Michael and Eddie, and we are two teenage cousins with a love of God and a deep interest in Christian beliefs. We have seen several videos of your interviews and are very interested in your views and your reasons for your actions. We have several questions and comments we would like to make, which we will try to do respectfully, and we would very much appreciate it if you would give us a timely reply with the same respect.
First, we would like to apologize for the length of this letter. There are just so many points that we would like to address, and there was no way we could abbreviate it.
Also, please seriously consider what we are saying. We may be young, but we are simply trying to obey the words of 1 Timothy 4:12: "Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity."
Eddie and I both attend church regularly, and we spend a great deal of time in the Scriptures so that we can grow closer to God. We have experience in several different denominations, including Presbyterian, Baptist, Methodist, and Wesleyan churches. But we have never heard of any church that preaches what you preach. We were very surprised and, to be honest, somewhat indignant when we heard some of the things you said in news reports.
In one such interview, you clearly stated that God controls the hearts of men. We have come to believe over the years that, although God does have the ability to control our actions, often He does not use that ability. After all, if He did, then sin would be nonexistent. In fact, it never would have come into existence at all. We believe that our heavenly Father has given us free will to decide what to do for ourselves. As He says through John in 1 John 4:16, "God is love." The way I have come to understand love is this: the relationship between two humans is not forced but a mutual act of free will. Eddie and I believe that this understanding of love also applies to the relationship between God and men. God sent His Son to die for us out of love. He chose us, so now it is up to us as humans to choose Him and complete the relationship. In this way, God gives us freedom to choose our own courses of action. It is only when we give our lives to Him that He reveals His will to us so that we can act upon it, but even then He does not control us. We have to continually choose to follow Him.
We would like to bring an idea to mind. Have you ever considered that when young men and women die, God allows them to die rather than killing them? What we mean is this: there may be plenty of cases where God allows His people to die so that they can return home to heaven to be with Him, like Elijah and Enoch (2 Kings 2:1-14; Genesis 5:24). Just because someone dies does not mean that God hates him or her. I don't know about you, but we haven't heard of any more cases like Elijah or Enoch outside of the Bible. So by your reasoning, it seems that this must mean that God hates everyone. But it seems to me that you believe that you and your followers are the only people who will go to heaven. But I would like to remind you of Romans 3:10: "As it is written: 'There is no one righteous, not even one.'"
Human death is not a thing to be ashamed of. In fact, aside from the coming of our Lord, it is the one thing we Christians look forward to the most in this life. After all, death of the flesh means entrance into the new life. We remain in this life only to do good works that glorify God and to spread the good news of salvation through Jesus Christ.
As I understand from your interviews, you believe that only those who obey the Lord's Commandments will be saved. But look back at Romans 3:10 again. Nobody can live their lives without breaking the Commandments. It seems to me that you are preaching salvation by works, not by faith. But the Bible clearly states that faith is what saves us, and works are merely the evidence of our faith. For example, the famous words of John 3:16 say, "For God so loved the world that He gave His One and Only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." "Whoever believes in Him"—not whoever obeys the commandments flawlessly, not those God likes: those who believe in Him. Now I do agree that faith alone cannot save us. In fact, Jesus' brother James says so in James 2:17. But that does not mean that our deeds can save us. See Ephesians 2:8-9: "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast." "It is the gift of God"—God was under no obligation to give us salvation. He did it out of love for us. Paul then goes on in his letter to the Ephesians to say that we have been made to do good works. But this means that we are to serve others and glorify God, not judge others and condemn them by their deeds.
Romans 3:21-24 says, "But now a righteousness from God, apart from the law, has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." "A righteousness from God, apart from the law"—again, Paul makes it clear that we are not to rely on our works to gain salvation for us. Our works cannot save us; that is why Jesus came to die for us, in order to serve as the ultimate Sacrifice for our sins. "Through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe"—anyone can be saved if they believe in Jesus. To me, to "believe in" Jesus means that we thankfully accept His gift of salvation and turn from our sinful ways. And by "turn from our sinful ways," I mean, "wholeheartedly apologize to God and make an honest attempt to choose Him over our sinful desires." And of course you know Romans 3:23: "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God."
Now before you zone us out, let me say this: I understand how annoyed you must get when you hear others tell you not to judge people when they themselves seem to be judging you. Allow me to apologize now for anything we may say that offends you or that sounds like we are being judgmental.
With that being said, I would like to direct your attention to James 4:11-12: "Brothers, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against his brother or judges him speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the One who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?" Do any of us have any right to judge a fellow human? James seems to think not. And if what we, as Christians, believe is true, then we can take James' words to be the words of God Himself.
We have a question for you. Any time an interviewer says, "Judge not," to you, you become indignant and retort that they are the ones judging you. That may be true, but seriously reconsider what you have been doing and saying. Take a minute and step into the shoes of the wife of a soldier who died in Iraq. Let's say, hypothetically, that this soldier was a devout member of the church (nondenominational); he read his Bible every day and spent time alone with God for an hour in the morning and an hour in the evening each day; he led Bible studies at church every week, and he actively took notes on the sermon every Sunday morning and studied them throughout the week, applying them to his life along with the words of the Bible; through his actions and words over the last three years, he has brought ten people to Christ and has introduced God to hundreds. If someone came to you protesting your husband's funeral and claiming that he deserved to die, what would you think? Would you automatically think and say, "Thank you for warning me. Clearly God used my husband's death in order to save me"? Although it may be true that that is God's purpose in the deaths of some, that is not the case in all situations. I honestly cannot imagine you being so driven by your beliefs that you would stand by and let your own husband's funeral be protested. What do you think is running through the minds of those men and women whose loved ones have passed away, whose funerals you and your church are protesting? I highly doubt it is gratitude. If you were in their shoes, I believe you would be thinking the same thing so many people have been telling you: "Judge not."
Now please tell me, do you consider your actions to be acts of love? Again, I may only be a teenager, but I believe acts of love are recognizable as acts of love. Whether a parent's rebuke or a friendly hug, it is understood that these things are done out of love. But I cannot truthfully say that I believe saying, "Gays deserve to die," is very loving. Sure, the Bible forbids homosexuality, but God forgives sinners when we repent and turn our lives over to Christ. (Just to clarify, no, I am not gay.) In one interview, you repeatedly avoided the accusation that you had a child out of wedlock. If the accusation is true, then thank God that He is a forgiving God. (If it is false, thank God for helping you to keep His Commandment against adultery.) And because He is a forgiving God, He forgives all who call on His name and turn from their sinful desires. It is not for us but for God alone to decide who will live in heaven and who will die in hell.
1 Peter 3:8-9 says, "Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing." And Galatians 6:1a says, "Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently." When I see these verses, I think of a mother warning a toddler not to hit his or her siblings, or two brothers in Christ keeping each other accountable in staying away from lustful temptations. I ask you to reconsider your actions and see if there may be a better way to get the message across that Jesus is the only way to eternal life.
On the WBC website, there is a verse (Proverbs 1:22) that says that God doesn't love everyone. First, I would just like to say that my New International Version Bible does not say that. Second, I would like to show another verse that, I believe, contradicts that statement: Romans 5:6-8. "You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." "Christ died for the ungodly"—that's great news for everyone, including you and me. After all, we are sinful human beings. Until we had Christ, we too were ungodly. "While we were still sinners, Christ died for us"—thank God! Think about it this way: If Jesus didn't die for the sinners but only for the righteous, what was the point of His death? After all, I don't know of anyone other than Jesus Himself who managed to live perfectly for his or her entire life. That means that there was no one for Him to die for. If that is the case, then Jesus died only for Himself... and what good does that do anyone?
As I came to this part of the letter, I began to think of a good way to wrap things up. I wanted to bring up John 3:16 again, and I thought it would be cool if I started and ended this message with the same verse. But then I realized that I didn't start the letter with John 3:16, and it turns out I won't be ending with it either, so I gave up on that idea. But I would still like to bring up John 3:16 again anyway. "For God so loved the world that He gave His One and Only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." "For God so loved the world"—He sent Jesus to die for us because He loved the world. He loved His creation. He loved all of mankind. Not just those who loved Him, but everyone. If you've ever had a crush on someone when you were a kid, and you didn't know how he felt about you, but you continued to like him anyway, hoping that he would eventually come around and tell you that he liked you too, that is how God felt about all of mankind, on a microscopic level. He hoped to demonstrate His love for us through Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. It is up to us as humans to decide whether we love Him back or not.
I enjoy doing Bible studies with my small group at church. A couple months ago, we were reading our way through 1 Corinthians. My small group leader stressed to us the importance of the message in 1 Corinthians 8, which I believe is summed up in 1 Corinthians 10:31-33: "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God—even as I try to please everybody in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved." In an interview I saw on YouTube, you said that your mission as a church is summarized in Isaiah in the verse that says that the people will be "ever seeing but not perceiving" and "ever hearing but not understanding" and their hearts will be hardened. I would like to offer an alternative mission. Rather than harden the hearts of men so that they will not gain salvation, try sharing the Gospel. God loves His people: He hates sin and desires for everyone to be free of sin so that we can all live with Him forever. Jesus tells His disciples in Matthew 28:19-20 to "go and make disciples of all nations." Not just His chosen people, Israel. All nations. So rather than cause the hearts of the unfaithful to become even more hardened and the newborn believers to become unsure of their beliefs, encourage new believers and show the positive side of the Gospel. Show love and compassion, and use all the publicity you have gotten to tell the world that God loves them and wants them to love Him back.
Now, to end, Eddie and I have a few questions for you, just to lighten the mood a bit (we hope).
Just out of curiosity, how many children do you have? We saw a couple video interviews, and in one you said you had eight children, and in the other you said you had eleven. So we were just wondering how many you have now.
I would also like to know (as if we haven't already given you enough to talk about), what is your view on the Harry Potter books? Are they permissible, or should Christians steer clear of them?
One more question: Where did you and your husband take your theological training? Just curious.
Again, we apologize for the length of this letter. And I sincerely apologize if anything we have said has offended you. (My cousin would not agree with my apology, but that is why I am the one writing, not him.) Thank you for your time, and God bless!
Michael and Eddie
---"I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain." ~ Philippians 1:20-21---
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As I said to Mrs. Roper, I apologize for the length of this post. But I hope that it cleared some things up for anyone who had any questions on what Christians truly believe.
If, and when, I receive a response, I will be sure to post it. If you would like to send a message to Mrs. Roper and the WBC, visit the church's website (look up Westboro Baptist Church on Google, and it should be the first result) and click "Contact" in the upper-right corner.
Until next time, God bless!
Michael
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"I want men everywhere to lift up holy hands in prayer, without anger or disputing." ~ 1 Timothy 2:8